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  • I took the gesture literally; my husband and I adopted a dog, and well, that was the option.  It wasn’t until later that I realized Mark Zuckerberg wanted Facebook members to tell him who their extended family was.  And now everybody from the right is saying, “Oh, they don’t have children.  Hmmmm…”  Weeks later, that…

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  • HOLIDAYS ARE TOUGH

    I agreed to be a sponsor one time, and pretty much all I did one night was give this advice: “Can you love yourself and hold off from using for another hour and call me back?” and she said, “I think so…” I answered her phone calls, listened to her, and gave the same advice…

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  • SUKKOT

    SUKKOT

    Yesterday, on the way to my workout at Marlene Meyerson JCC Manhattan, I exited the subway station and found a cluster of Orthodox Jews waiting at the top of the stairs. Three women and one man. Since, as the author Anita Diamant, noted, as a Union Reform Jew, they will always be considered my cousins.…

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  • I have never been a fan, but I gotta say that Taylor Swift’s new album is just terrible. I kept saying, “Ah, come on!” while listening. Idioms, clichés, overused phrases, no original ideas, expository, feels rushed. I couldn’t connect the songs to the theme. Her pop, white rapper song, “Wood,” is raunchy but in a…

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  • SAFETY IN NUMBERS 

    In my second year out of high school, I met a young man at a restaurant. My girlfriends advised me to meet him somewhere public on the first date. “Always park the car near the windows so you can see it,” my other friend advised me. He was there, seated in a booth, ordered the…

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  • DAVID DUCHOVNY AND ELIZABETH GILBERT

    Actor David Duchovny recently told someone I admire that poetry is useless but necessary.   Zzzzzz. Do a Google search.  Like many of his comments, Duchovny is not the first person to use this analogy, a clunky way of saying that he’s so much deeper than other people.   How quickly celebrities rise in the book publishing…

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  • WE MOVED BACK TO NEW YORK CITY

    We missed it so much that we decided to move back to New York City.  My husband is excited to start his new teaching position.   Today we bought bagels at Zabar’s and the first time we left Sheldon alone in our apartment, but when we came back home, it was apparent from the position of…

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  • PATIENCE

    PATIENCE

    My cab broadsided another cab in an intersection, and my face slammed into the plexiglas divider, my nose broke, and my mouth was severely cut on the coin cup. When the ambulence arrived, the police told my cab driver to hold my purse and stand over there. When I was extracted from the cab, he…

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  • ELON FOREST

    ELON FOREST

    We live near Elon University and walk around Lake Mary Nell with Sheldon, our dog, several times a week. (Did you know that anyone in our community can fish in that lake, which is protected by the biology department? Feeding others is a #mitzvah.) This new initiative is excellent news and a top-tier #mitzvah: “The…

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  • THE LSAT

    THE LSAT

    I signed up for this event because I am interested in hearing what LawHub has to say to students about studying for the LSAT:  From my vantage point, I know students who are struggling with reading comprehension, and I recognize the importance of the English Department to the undergraduate Law Department. If you read these…

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