ICEBERGS

I think this iceberg image is a fine way to understand people and characters. 

After many years, for instance, I am reading a book written by someone whose ideas I still value, but nonetheless, he is an asshole, who years ago chose someone, allowed her to jump the velvet rope, because she gave him so much more attention than the other professional women. Cringe-worthy.

I quit. Ran as fast as I could when I realized it. But like other flawed people, he’s got some good, standout ideas, so here I am reading his book again.

A system that is nearly impossible to change.

That saying:  if you wait long enough, everyone gets what they deserve? In this case it’s SO true. 

Like I said, I think this diagram and explanation of Freud’s ideas are important to remember every time you meet someone, read literature, or create a fiction story.

Close your eyes and imagine an iceberg.  Ignite empathy, and go out there and keep being the nerd in the crowd that is making a difference.